You are not alone, Alberto. I have been a lot of people's last choice. Regardless of mates from the Islamic monastery in Yemen or colleagues, I am always the last choice. I know they are always looking for something in me. Either they are looking for themselves through times they once had with me, or they wanted to know about my life hoping that they are still better than me. I agree with your grandpapa. Well, either you cut them off or only allow them in for your time once in a blue moon.