So true. I thought over the different situations. Right now I witnessed my dad has been unable to control his bladder. He did not want to visit the doctor too. While on one hand we thought he seemed purposely releasing the urine as he walked to the toilet, on the other hand it seemed like he is having other underlying issues. I googled information like "Unable to control bladder in men" and found a articles mentioning that it could be due to smoking, dementia and etc... I hope we are not tested with his health issues just after my late aunt's demise due to cancer.